Skip to content

It takes more than medicine...

  • Instagram
  • Vimeo
  • Linkedin

8607 Roberts Drive, Suite 150 Sandy Springs, GA 30350-2237

(770) 518-8272phone    (770) 518-3310fax

8607 Roberts Drive, Suite 150 Sandy Springs, GA 30350-2237


I wish that I had hemophilia, too!

on September 15, 2015


By Cathy Hulbert, LCSW, Social Worker

“I wish that I had hemophilia, too.” What would you do if your child without the diagnosis said that to you? It is actually spoken – and silently thought -- more often than you might think. Parents sometimes react with shock or anger. That’s understandable from an adult perspective. But kids have a different way of seeing things. They often feel impacted by the bleeding disorder too, but in ways that they can’t articulate.That’s why I love Hemophilia of Georgia’s spring and fall family camps and other events that include siblings. One of the best ways to support a child or teen with a bleeding disorder is to support the people closest to them.

As a social worker, I often bring up the subject of brothers and sisters and how they cope with the extra demands put on parents when there is a hemophilia diagnosis in the family. Mothers, fathers and other caregivers often let me know that everything seems fine. Other times, though, parents react with surprise and relief when I bring up the subject. “I wanted to talk to you about that but didn’t know if we should only talk about the child with the bleeding disorder,” a parent might say.

Don’t hold back if the need is there. This can be a great conversation to have with your HoG social worker or the social worker at your Hemophilia Treatment Center. One conversation might be all that you want. If need be, we can refer you to a counselor who can address the issue more thoroughly from your family’s unique perspective. When a crisis happens to one family member, it happens to everyone in the family. We hope that you will let us know if we can help with that conversation. And in the meantime, please enjoy our family activities. Just being included can work wonders!



If you have a My HoG account, please login. If you do not have an account, please create one here.